Wealth Affirmation #2: “I Am a Time-Rich Wealth Builder” Stay-at-Home Parent Entrepreneur [Building Wealth While Homeschooling Without Sacrificing Family Time]

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Stop believing the lie that you

have to choose between being

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rich in time or rich in money.

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Today's affirmation will show you how

to build wealth because you prioritize

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time with your kids, not in spite of it.

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A fast growing number of parents are

starting their homeschooling journey while

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others have been homeschooling for years.

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All of these parents are asking one big

question, how can I afford to homeschool?

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We are here to answer that

important question once and for all.

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Hi, I'm Crystal Obby.

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And I'm Anthony Obby.

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We've been homeschooling our five

kids for 13 years and we funded it.

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Through our online consulting business

that we've been running for over 17

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years now, we're combining Crystal's

financial coaching expertise with my

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digital marketing background where I help

entrepreneurs launch and sell online.

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We're here to help fellow homeschooling

parents self-fund their homeschool

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journey and create lifestyle businesses.

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For financial freedom without a nine to

five job, are you ready to start living

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life on your own terms and make your

homeschooling experience a lot more fun?

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Well then sit back, crank up

the volume, and enjoy this

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episode of Homeschool Money.

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Hello guys.

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I'm so happy to be with

you on the show today.

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I'm Anthony Oby.

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I'm Crystal Oby.

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Our affirmation for today is I

am a time rich wealth builder.

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I'm gonna read it to

you so that you have it.

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Today's affirmation is I am

a time rich wealth builder.

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It goes.

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I create wealth while being

present for my children.

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My income grows as my children

grow, and I model financial success

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and intentional living every day.

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I become more financially

abundant while remaining the

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hands-on parent I choose to be.

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This affirmation is powerful because

it positions your children as witnesses

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to your success, not casualties of it.

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When you model that wealth and presence

can coexist, you teach your children

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that they never have to choose between

financial success and family values.

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They can have both.

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Okay, let's repeat that affirmation.

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I create wealth while being

present for my children.

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My income grows as my children

grow, and I model financial success

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and intentional living every day.

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I become more financially

abundant while remaining the

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hands-on parent I choose to be.

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As we were preparing for this affirmation,

we were discussing the story of the

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time where our son and our daughter

were having one of their conversations,

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probably playing with some Legos

and drawing some pictures and just,

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you know how they like to hang out.

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Yeah.

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And our daughter, who is an artist, loves

to dance, loves to sing, loves to create,

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and she was talking about how when she

grows up, she wants to have her own.

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Dance studio and she wants to teach

people how to dance and she just

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wants to be able to have time to

dance and also do all her art.

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And it was so incredible because I

heard my son say, yes, you can do that,

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but make sure that you do some online

classes so that you can make sure to have

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time to be able to be at home and nurse

your babies and just be with your kids.

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And you know how it is when

you're watching kids have

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like adult conversations.

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Yeah.

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And they're just so like,

matter of fact, yeah.

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And he's like, he, he did not have

a problem at all with her talking

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about owning her own business at the

same time having her own children.

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It was just like such a reality.

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He didn't say, oh, how are you

gonna do this at the same time?

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And how, you know, he was just like.

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This is how it can work.

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Yes, you can be at home with your kids

and you can be a great mother, and you can

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be a great teacher and make all the money

you wanna make, and you can still dance

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yourself, but this is how it can work.

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And I was like, you know what?

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That was one of them moments.

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I was like, you know what?

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We're, we're doing okay.

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We're doing okay.

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Yeah.

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It's working.

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It is working.

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Yeah.

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Because he just, it was such

a clean conversation and she

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was like, oh yeah, of course.

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You know?

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Right, right.

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Of course.

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Right.

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And just the.

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The ebb and flow of knowing that,

you know, on some days she, she

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can't have her own dance studio and

be there and be it with the kids.

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She's gonna have to have help.

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She's gonna have to hire other dancers.

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She's gonna have to have a, a manager.

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I mean, she's gonna have to be a

business woman in order to also be

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the mother that she wants to be.

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Yeah.

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And to be the mother that she wants to be.

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She needs to know what she likes to do.

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Yeah.

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And how she likes to do it because she

was very clear that she wants to still

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be able to dance when she wants to.

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And help other people in person,

like just the feeling you get when

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you're dancing with other people.

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But she knew that teaching would be

an unlock for her to be able to keep

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a certain level of income as well.

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So just that comprehensive view

of her future, how she can do

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what she likes, but make it work.

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Not in a way that is

like just so idealistic.

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Yeah, it's very strategic.

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Yeah.

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Our son, how he was

able to see it himself.

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I was like, oh man, they're, they're

gonna be okay and we're doing okay.

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And the world is right right now.

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That was really good.

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Now, back to the show.

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Okay.

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Welcome back guys.

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I'm going to repeat the affirmation.

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I create wealth while being

present for my children.

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My income grows as my children

grow, and I model financial success

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and intentional living every day.

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I become more financially

abundant while remaining the

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hands-on parent I choose to be.

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Many parents resist this because

they fear that pursuing wealth

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will make them absent or selfish.

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There's often guilt around wanting

more money when you already have

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the privilege of homeschooling.

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This guilt keeps you playing small when

your children need to see you playing big.

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And I think that's really interesting.

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When PE we talk about the privilege

of homeschooling, many people will

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say, oh, you get to homeschool.

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What a privilege.

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Well, the privilege.

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Is actually an intentional

decision because everyone can have

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the opportunity to homeschool.

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They just may have to homeschool

in the way that they can.

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And so it just looks

different for everyone.

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And so if it homeschooling is the

opportunity that you wanna take.

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Then you're just gonna have to

look at your own life and see what

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do we need to make work, right?

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And so a lot of people will think,

oh, it just falls into place easily.

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But everything that we teach here

on this show is all about being

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intentional and all about finding

the resources that are necessary for

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the seasonal life that you're in.

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It's gonna look different for someone

who's working from home in a remote job.

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That is homeschooling than it is

for someone who's running a company.

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And there are some moms that listen to our

show, where their husbands work remote.

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In a job and they may have a side

business that's a, a business that they

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have a passion for that's not too big,

but it does enough for their family

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to let them be able to stay home.

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And then we have some people

that they're running a business

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together as a couple or, you know.

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There's just lots of opportunities

and, and ways that you can be

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working from home and homeschooling.

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Some of our listeners travel and

they are on the road homeschooling.

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Yeah, and so then they're international.

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Yeah.

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Everyone's not just in one

location, and so the privilege

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of homeschooling is not just.

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It just fell into their lap.

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The families that listen to our

show, they assess what are our family

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values, what's important to us, and

what's important to us right now.

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Because even traveling

is a different priority.

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During different seasons, whenever,

you know, we were pregnant and had.

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I had these different health issues.

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We couldn't get around

as much as we wanted to.

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We had to stay close to Dallas because we

needed to be close to my, my medical team.

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And so we couldn't be all, you know, globe

trodden and world travelers and everything

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because we needed to protect my life.

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Yeah.

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And so.

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Some people are able to travel

and they have the older teenagers.

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And so now that our kids are getting

older, we're able to get out more.

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And so it's all about the values that you

want to focus on and the intentionality

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that you want to have that makes all

the difference of how your life is.

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And so your kids need to see that

you are going after the things that

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you want in life, and you're doing

it in a way that is strategic and.

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You are able to have a fulfilling life

while you're enjoying homeschooling them.

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You're not sacrificing everything

to be able to homeschool them, and

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you're also not limiting yourself

financially in order to homeschool them.

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If you listen to this show, you'll

find lots of resources on how to

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actually increase your income while

having more time to be able to

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enjoy the opportunity to homeschool.

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That's right.

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So let's repeat the affirmation again.

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I create wealth while being

present for my children.

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My income grows as my children

grow, and I model financial

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success and intentional living.

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Every day.

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I become more financially

abundant while remaining the

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hands-on parent I choose to be.

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Listen guys, your children are

learning more from watching you build

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wealth with integrity than they ever

could from a textbook about success.

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Every dollar you create while

honoring your family values is a

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lesson in possibility impossibility.

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I hope that you saw that and caught

that in the story that Crystal shared

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earlier about the conversation between.

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Our our girl and our oldest girl.

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And our oldest boy, you're not just

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you're showing them what's possible.

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